Safety & Planning

Survivor-centered planning and quick actions to reduce risk — personalized, confidential, and practical.

If You Are In An Abusive Relationship

If you are currently in a harmful or dangerous situation, making a safety plan can help protect you and your children. You don’t have to leave to start planning — your safety matters now.

Safety Tips

Have an Escape Plan
Prepare a Go-Bag
Alert Someone You Trust
Talk to Your Children

If You Are Thinking About Leaving

Leaving an abusive relationship is often the most dangerous time. You do not need to leave to begin planning. Thinking ahead can help protect your safety when you are ready.

Planning for Safety

Recognize Warning Signs
Identify What Keeps You Safe
Prepare for Emergencies
Reduce Immediate Danger
Plan and Practice an Escape Route
Secure Financial Independence
Important Things To Grab

Staying Safe After Leaving an Abusive Relationship

Leaving is a courageous step, but safety planning must continue even after separation. These actions can help protect you and your children as you rebuild your life.

Post-Separation Safety Steps

Secure Your Home
Protect Your Information
Plan Safe Communication
If Followed While Driving
Workplace Safety Plan
Children’s Safety Plan
Document Everything

You Are Not Alone — Help Is Available 24/7

If you are in danger or need to talk to someone right now, trained advocates are here to help — day and night. You don’t have to wait until it’s an emergency to reach out.